Today, Brian and I add a new chapter to our story. We become parents...at least for a few months.
Today, Samantha, our teenage exchange student from Australia, arrives. She will be with us until January. I am pretty excited. And intimidated. And elated. And a little bit scared.
Sam is a beautiful young woman who will attend one of our local high schools. As her mom reassured me, she is not interested in boyfriends, but let me assure you that the boys at her high school will be trying to change her mind! Brian may have to start cleaning his guns on an even more regular basis.
Add to that the simple fact that Brian and I are accustomed to living a pretty selfish life. If we don't feel like cooking, we don't. If we feel like going to have a drink downtown, we do, either together or separately with friends. We leave for work when we please and we stay as late as we want ( or as long as the dogs' bladders can hang on.)
We haven't had to consider someone else's needs besides our own, beyond babying our pets. I think this experience will grow us up...fast! I am grateful for the experience, and pretty stoked about stepping into parenting way past the diaper phase.
I realize that teenagers present a whole new set of challenges. Curfews, mood swings, boys, shopping, laundry. Sam doesn't eat or drink junk, so even our eating habits will have to grow up a little bit. We do pretty well now, but I have a feeling that we are about to get a whole lot healthier. So we lose a few pounds and gain a beautiful daughter? Yes, I think so!
I am amazed at Sam's courage and her parents' courage as well. To send your 15 year old across the world to a couple that you have emailed for a week must be about the most frightening thing you could ever do. We are honored to host her; and if you know me, you know it's been hard not to go hog wild decorating and buying her things even before she gets here. I have restrained myself and bought her one welcome gift. And next week I want to take her to pick out her new comforter for her bed. And she'll probably need some curtains, too. And maybe a new lamp.
When we have kids of our own (fingers crossed), Brian will have to put me on a VERY short financial leash or I may bankrupt us buying things!
Sam arrives tonight at 8 pm, and our world will be in that moment, forever changed. We can't wait!